When my mother’s health began declining last year, I found myself overwhelmed with worry and questions. Living hundreds of miles away, I needed to find reliable care for her in Pune, and the process felt incredibly daunting. After weeks of research and many sleepless nights, I discovered what truly matters when choosing elder care. I’m sharing my journey to help make yours a little easier.
Understanding What Your Loved One Really Needs
I remember sitting with mom, trying to have that difficult conversation about accepting help. It wasn’t just about listing services—it was about understanding her fears and hopes.
Ask yourself:
- Does your parent need medical supervision for chronic conditions?
- Are they struggling with daily activities like bathing or cooking?
- Is loneliness their biggest challenge?
My mother insisted she was “perfectly fine,” but I noticed her medication organizer was constantly mixed up, and her formerly spotless home showed signs she couldn’t keep up anymore.
Why I Found CareVishva So Helpful
After exhausting myself calling dozens of providers and visiting facilities that weren’t right for us, a friend recommended CareVishva. I was skeptical of “one-stop solutions,” but their approach was different.
What made the difference:
- They connected us with providers who had verifiable credentials and references
- They helped match mom’s specific needs with appropriate services
- Their care consultants asked questions I hadn’t even thought to ask
When the care coordinator spent thirty minutes just talking with my mother about her favorite Spiritual book in regional language, I knew they understood this wasn’t just about physical care.
Finding the Right Type of Care
Through CareVishva, we explored several options before finding what worked:
Initially, we tried an in-home caregiver who visited for four hours daily. She was wonderful, but as mom’s arthritis worsened, we needed more comprehensive support.
We then considered nursing assistance, especially after mom’s fall. The nurse they connected us with not only managed her medications but also coordinated with her doctors—something I couldn’t do from a distance.
Eventually, we toured three assisted living communities before finding one where mom didn’t feel “warehoused” (her words). The right facility had residents her age with similar interests and cultural backgrounds.
Making the Final Decision
The most helpful approach was:
Trusting my instincts while checking the facts
When a caregiver seemed perfect on paper but mom seemed uncomfortable, I listened to that discomfort. But I also verified credentials and asked for specific training information.
Being honest about finances
I was reluctant to discuss budget constraints, but when I finally did, CareVishva helped identify services that provided quality care without unnecessary extras we couldn’t afford.
Involving Mom in every decision
Even when her memory wasn’t perfect, giving her choices preserved her dignity. The assisted living facility that let her bring her beloved plants and arrange her room exactly as she wanted earned her approval.
The Peace of Mind Worth Finding
Two months after finding the right care solution, I finally slept through the night without worrying. The staff sends me weekly updates with photos, and mom has made friends who share her passion for morning yoga.
If you’re where I was a year ago—anxious, overwhelmed, and wanting only the best for someone you love—remember that finding the right care is possible. Platforms like CareVishva simplify the process, but the journey still requires your heart and attention to what makes your loved one unique.
Your parent cared for you. Finding them the right care honors that lifetime of love.
